I’m hooked on reruns of a show on Lifetime called, “Still Standing.” It’s a family sitcom that’s a little less clean cut and a little more real than some of it’s predecessors. On one episode, Judy, the mother is sitting on a bench at the park and a woman on her lunch break sits down next to her.
Judy proceeds to comment on her kid playing on the playground with some kid she doesn’t know and how kids can do that…just walk up to a strange kid and say “hi, wanna hang?” She then laments why adults can’t do that. The stranger agrees with her and then Judy proceeds to try to recreate what her daughter is doing on the playground, make a new friend of sorts. The woman from the office immediately flees. It’s funny but it’s sort of true.
I was just thinking, as adults we don’t tend to walk up to strange adults and say “Hi, wanna hang?” It’s weird and borderline stalker-y. But then I thought…actually maybe we do kind of do that. Only we call it networking. Thoughts?
January 23, 2008 at 8:30 am
Ha. Welcome to the Sandbox Zoe, but I hope you know, we can’t help you here.
We all suffer varying degrees of blog-aholism.
The first time I tried it, it was just with a couple of friends. Ya know, people who knew me a little. Two, three times a day at the most. Before I knew it, three became six, and then twelve…and well, what can I say? Sometimes I do it all day now.
That was a cute show. Haven’t seen it in ages.
January 23, 2008 at 10:08 am
OMG! I can get into conversations with people in a waiting line at the grocery store. And I’m on the introvert side of the scale. LOL Maybe because I’m short, no one sees me as threatening.
January 23, 2008 at 10:59 am
Hehe Hey Lainey maybe we should form a support group.
hahaha Edie, maybe you aren’t as introverted as you think.
January 23, 2008 at 3:29 pm
LOLOL … So true! I wish we could do that. It’s very difficult to find new friends out of college. All my friends have been saying that since college.
I have friends that have moved to new cities and don’t have ONE friend. It is truly hard to make friends these days.
Except online. That’s gotten easy. Hence, blog-a-holism.
January 23, 2008 at 4:11 pm
I’ve met several friends I originally met online. I think as adults we’re a little gun shy, but sometimes we connect with people online and we extend that friendship to the off-line world.
Though it’s not always advise-able.